zindagi nahi, sirf nazariya badal kar toh dekho

About Conflicts & Conflict Management and or Mediation, all the learning begins from home, no? __the non-believer in me decided to pray, yesterday night, pray for silence filled calm environment the next morning, so I could write. woke up to hearing loud funny arguments Mom was extending to her mom in the kitchen. heart: — […]

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HELLO…? DIALOGUE DEN..?

Somebody: hello? Dialogue den..? Amee: hello.. yes … Somebody: eh, can I speak to the Owner or Founder or Management? I have a business collaboration opportunity to discuss about.. Amee (not interested, but..): ah! ok. ok! you can talk to me. Somebody: No, its important deal so we wish to talk to the Founder or […]

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protests, is that how we wish to bring a change??

Thinking… can’t think but. It is like that. We just choose to not see inside us. of what we can do, with the same power and position. we don’t see or feel. we blend with the needy things – immaterial to our life – following the footsteps, willingly choose to blind self. sad.

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investing efforts to creating a safe environment, its magical

In the school sessions with youth aged 16-18 years: one of them said: Ma’am, I think I am your favourite most in this class. You like me. other said: Ma’am, but I think she is right one for me! I understand her. other said: Ma’am, what are your hobbies? I think after the school ends, […]

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Emogi in formal email..? can it be allowed?

formal, how formal? no. not informal but. in these very long distance times – we haven’t met for so long, I happen to use emogis to pass my exact feeling, in the formal mails. I learnt and noted in my mediation journey diary – “Friendly behaviour Ok. But yes, no forget to maintain Professional behaviour.” […]

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Bhaiyaji.. don’t “hey” me!

I see a huge scope for a Union group to be created. All people who don’t get responses for “hey” or “hi” messages – could start a Union. Add mediation in the dispute resolution clause of the Union Policy. #mediation This will royally be my one mediation session scenario – I will not mind play […]

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backup fellow mediator friends

And you will be your only pillar at work. If you pause. The process will pause. Take good care of yourself.Body. Mind. Soul. Energy. Time. Environment. Thoughts.Money.. – No don’t worry about money. Mediator Reflection. #mediators #reflection #careerguide The best backup can be to have a few go-to fellow mediator friends who can take up the […]

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mediator personality

Getting work done from other – nears the efforts needed in facilitating a process, no?and most of the times the other:– don’t want to do the assigned/ requested work– don’t like the work– isn’t on the same energy level to get work done– isn’t interested to even listen, and– is not impacted by the result, […]

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feud – solved

today, solving a friendship feud for my kids I feel achieved. it was so simply. just some here and there. just some confession. just some clarity. just some choices. just some virtual handshakes. just some smile exchanges. with a little bit of acceptance tolerance for each other. and that’s it. oh…no… oops. will it be […]

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